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Post by rosa427 on Mar 20, 2019 11:29:05 GMT -5
Today's gripe.....
People who pretend to be someone they're not. That and people with dual/triple/quadruple nics on a forum hard to know which one is the real them.
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Post by TheSource on Mar 20, 2019 16:14:33 GMT -5
people with dual/triple/quadruple nics on a forum hard to know which one is the real them. I hear you loud and clear, young lady. I've run across several Dr. Jekyll/Hyde/Sybil personalities in my years on the 'net. Rest assured Rosa, there is only "one" of me and I am the 'real deal'.
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Post by chinadoll1981 on Mar 20, 2019 20:14:21 GMT -5
My gripe? Unfaithful lovers. My friend Yu ( Jade) just found out her lover was cheating on her after 5 year together So sad Yu say that girlfriend decided to tell her because she say she cared for Yu... still. As her girlfriend and I were also friends she now dead to me for being cheat sigh I not have many friends here in US but I not stand to see Yu cry over this, she deserve better. So I down one friend but bond with another make up for loss. Yu very sad I sad for her
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Post by highlandannie on Mar 21, 2019 4:42:36 GMT -5
My gripe? Unfaithful lovers. My friend Yu ( Jade) just found out her lover was cheating on her after 5 year together So sad Yu say that girlfriend decided to tell her because she say she cared for Yu... still. As her girlfriend and I were also friends she now dead to me for being cheat sigh I not have many friends here in US but I not stand to see Yu cry over this, she deserve better. So I down one friend but bond with another make up for loss. Yu very sad I sad for her I have no tolerance for unfaithful partners either. It is unforgiveable.
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Post by chinadoll1981 on Mar 21, 2019 4:45:54 GMT -5
My gripe? Unfaithful lovers. My friend Yu ( Jade) just found out her lover was cheating on her after 5 year together So sad Yu say that girlfriend decided to tell her because she say she cared for Yu... still. As her girlfriend and I were also friends she now dead to me for being cheat sigh I not have many friends here in US but I not stand to see Yu cry over this, she deserve better. So I down one friend but bond with another make up for loss. Yu very sad I sad for her I have no tolerance for unfaithful partners either. It is unforgiveable. They seemed as strong a partnership as my own with Rebecca I very sadden over this
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Post by highlandannie on Mar 21, 2019 4:47:08 GMT -5
I have no tolerance for unfaithful partners either. It is unforgiveable. They seemed as strong a partnership as my own with Rebecca I very sadden over this Not always easy to know what goes on in private. Sometimes the couples that seem the happiest break up and friends and family are shocked.
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Post by rebecca2013 on Mar 21, 2019 7:27:05 GMT -5
chinadoll1981 I am sorry as I have said to you in private but that lying cheating Suyin was NO friend to you and not faithful to Yu... Yu is like a delicate flower and this &^%$#@! woman just tossed her aside without any regard for her.... makes me so pissed off!! ... It reminds me of my own failed marriage, with his constant cheating and physical abuse... Finally I was determined he would never hit me again unless he wished to die and I could never forgive him for all the cheating he did and the worse hurt was when he cheated with my (then) best friend.... That killed me when he cheated with Sadie.... it broke my heart in two I lost my marriage and once a very dear friend....He was the worse nightmare but there is life after the bad dreams... Yu can stay with us for as long as she needs to... it is the very least we can do to help her though this painful time.
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Post by helen on Mar 21, 2019 8:08:18 GMT -5
people with dual/triple/quadruple nics on a forum hard to know which one is the real them. I hear you loud and clear, young lady. I've run across several Dr. Jekyll/Hyde/Sybil personalities in my years on the 'net. Rest assured Rosa, there is only "one" of me and I am the 'real deal'. Yes, exotic but obviously fake personas are very annoying.
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Post by 2old on Mar 21, 2019 15:41:16 GMT -5
chinadoll1981 I am sorry as I have said to you in private but that lying cheating Suyin was NO friend to you and not faithful to Yu... Yu is like a delicate flower and this &^%$#@! woman just tossed her aside without any regard for her.... makes me so pissed off!! ... It reminds me of my own failed marriage, with his constant cheating and physical abuse... Finally I was determined he would never hit me again unless he wished to die and I could never forgive him for all the cheating he did and the worse hurt was when he cheated with my (then) best friend.... That killed me when he cheated with Sadie.... it broke my heart in two I lost my marriage and once a very dear friend....He was the worse nightmare but there is life after the bad dreams... Yu can stay with us for as long as she needs to... it is the very least we can do to help her though this painful time. This is one of the things that has always bothered me during my years on Earth. Why people fall to the temptations of their lust and give up all their personal integrity while bringing heartbreak to someone they love. The other thing I simply cannot tolerate is the thought that a man can hit a woman... a woman they have sworn to love, protect, and cherish for the remainder of their life. Guess I'm too old fashioned. In almost 53 years of marriage, have I been tempted? Of course. Have I fallen to those temptations? NO WAY! The trust of a beautiful lady and the respect of our children was something I would never give up for a roll in the hay!!! I am told that I did swing at my wife... once. She had brought me home from the hospital in 1977 with a cast from ankle to hip. She had helped me into a bed and I had gone to sleep. She said she heard me moaning and came in to check on me, tapped me on the shoulder, I jumped and swung. I didn't connect... thank goodness! I didn't remember it. But there is no way I could intentionally injure such a fantastic wife, mother, and grandmother. What has caused such a lack of respect of the commitments we have made? What has poisoned society to the point where two people cannot spend a life together through thick and thin? Why do we have to hear about spousal abuse, child abuse, etc. each and every day? I sorta hope I never do understand to the point that I could condone such behavior.
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Post by Kady on Mar 25, 2019 8:26:57 GMT -5
Links that take me to more links, that take me to more links......
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Post by highlandannie on Mar 25, 2019 12:42:40 GMT -5
Gripe?! Trump. Barr. Theresa May. The Brexit disaster and praying we can get out of divorcing the EU.
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Post by rebecca2013 on Mar 25, 2019 13:42:27 GMT -5
2 years we had of conjecture and theories and investigation.......
Now we'll have 2 years (or God Help Us.... maybe more.... of gloating)
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Post by nkat on Mar 25, 2019 14:03:13 GMT -5
chinadoll1981 I am sorry as I have said to you in private but that lying cheating Suyin was NO friend to you and not faithful to Yu... Yu is like a delicate flower and this &^%$#@! woman just tossed her aside without any regard for her.... makes me so pissed off!! ... It reminds me of my own failed marriage, with his constant cheating and physical abuse... Finally I was determined he would never hit me again unless he wished to die and I could never forgive him for all the cheating he did and the worse hurt was when he cheated with my (then) best friend.... That killed me when he cheated with Sadie.... it broke my heart in two I lost my marriage and once a very dear friend....He was the worse nightmare but there is life after the bad dreams... Yu can stay with us for as long as she needs to... it is the very least we can do to help her though this painful time. This is one of the things that has always bothered me during my years on Earth. Why people fall to the temptations of their lust and give up all their personal integrity while bringing heartbreak to someone they love. The other thing I simply cannot tolerate is the thought that a man can hit a woman... a woman they have sworn to love, protect, and cherish for the remainder of their life. Guess I'm too old fashioned. In almost 53 years of marriage, have I been tempted? Of course. Have I fallen to those temptations? NO WAY! The trust of a beautiful lady and the respect of our children was something I would never give up for a roll in the hay!!! I am told that I did swing at my wife... once. She had brought me home from the hospital in 1977 with a cast from ankle to hip. She had helped me into a bed and I had gone to sleep. She said she heard me moaning and came in to check on me, tapped me on the shoulder, I jumped and swung. I didn't connect... thank goodness! I didn't remember it. But there is no way I could intentionally injure such a fantastic wife, mother, and grandmother. What has caused such a lack of respect of the commitments we have made? What has poisoned society to the point where two people cannot spend a life together through thick and thin? Why do we have to hear about spousal abuse, child abuse, etc. each and every day? I sorta hope I never do understand to the point that I could condone such behavior. My dh almost hit me once and he almost hit my dd another time when we woke him up. Vietnam did not help his dreams. nkat
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Post by rebecca2013 on Mar 25, 2019 15:02:07 GMT -5
This is one of the things that has always bothered me during my years on Earth. Why people fall to the temptations of their lust and give up all their personal integrity while bringing heartbreak to someone they love. The other thing I simply cannot tolerate is the thought that a man can hit a woman... a woman they have sworn to love, protect, and cherish for the remainder of their life. Guess I'm too old fashioned. In almost 53 years of marriage, have I been tempted? Of course. Have I fallen to those temptations? NO WAY! The trust of a beautiful lady and the respect of our children was something I would never give up for a roll in the hay!!! I am told that I did swing at my wife... once. She had brought me home from the hospital in 1977 with a cast from ankle to hip. She had helped me into a bed and I had gone to sleep. She said she heard me moaning and came in to check on me, tapped me on the shoulder, I jumped and swung. I didn't connect... thank goodness! I didn't remember it. But there is no way I could intentionally injure such a fantastic wife, mother, and grandmother. What has caused such a lack of respect of the commitments we have made? What has poisoned society to the point where two people cannot spend a life together through thick and thin? Why do we have to hear about spousal abuse, child abuse, etc. each and every day? I sorta hope I never do understand to the point that I could condone such behavior. My dh almost hit me once and he almost hit my dd another time when we woke him up. Vietnam did not help his dreams. nkat I can understand those who suffered through war who had PTSD I could almost forgive them as they have changed psychologically
.... my ex-husband is a soldier. At the time we were married, a Sergeant E9 (now he is a First Lieutenant) and yes... he fought in Iraq and Afghanistan..... BUT he is with Army Intel.. I really don't count that as being a line non-com.... and certainly not as stressful as a line infantry man.....
He liked to "make me listen" by slapping me around, and actually hitting me and calling me every name in the book. As he used to say "getting my attention" Meantime, he cheated with every stinking puta in DC/Maryland/Virginia.... if it was female.... he slept with them. After a couple of cycles of "I am sorry and I will change" lies............ I got out, I had enough of the abuse which he can't possibly say was due being in war.... I also spent months in and around Afghanistan for my agency... I saw and participated in activities inside a war zone.... I wouldn't come home and slap Ziyi.... Two reasons.... I am in good self control of myself and second she would have whipped my butt
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Post by highlandannie on Mar 25, 2019 15:27:10 GMT -5
My dh almost hit me once and he almost hit my dd another time when we woke him up. Vietnam did not help his dreams. nkat I can understand those who suffered through war who had PTSD I could almost forgive them as they have changed psychologically
.... my ex-husband is a soldier. At the time we were married, a Sergeant E9 (now he is a First Lieutenant) and yes... he fought in Iraq and Afghanistan..... BUT he is with Army Intel.. I really don't count that as being a line non-com.... and certainly not as stressful as a line infantry man.....
He liked to "make me listen" by slapping me around, and actually hitting me and calling me every name in the book. As he used to say "getting my attention" Meantime, he cheated with every stinking puta in DC/Maryland/Virginia.... if it was female.... he slept with them. After a couple of cycles of "I am sorry and I will change" lies............ I got out, I had enough of the abuse which he can't possibly say was due being in war.... I also spent months in and around Afghanistan for my agency... I saw and participated in activities inside a war zone.... I wouldn't come home and slap Ziyi.... Two reasons.... I am in good self control of myself and second she would have whipped my butt
My second husband was psycholgically and occasionally physically abusive. What a relief when I told him to move out and he did!
Totally opposite to the husband I have now!!
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