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Post by Deleted on Jul 15, 2018 11:15:16 GMT -5
That I tried to give people a choice as to whether I continued here or not, but my efforts to do so were thwarted.
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Post by Fireheart on Jul 15, 2018 11:29:04 GMT -5
There is no reason for you to leave. This is a forum. Issues get debated. Sometimes they get heated. Everyone here has freedom....freedom to post what they want, debate as they want, and share the opinions that they want (within the TOS). If someone cannot handle heated debates or if they get to a point that they are so angry that they don't want to deal with it anymore, they have the freedom and the ability to ignore the situation and step away from that post, the forum, or their computer altogether. It's quite simple.
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Post by QuickSilver on Jul 15, 2018 11:54:43 GMT -5
Keeping in mind though that there is quite a difference between heated debates on a topic and antagonistic personal insults.... Just thought I'd throw that in... As for whether he stays or goes... as you say.. people are free to do as they choose.. he can expect to be throwing his insults at the air though as I am done responding to them while I try to seriously discuss a topic. That's my friend is my two cents on the subject... and my final comment. So stay or go @tobytyler ... it's your choice, as I really don't care.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 15, 2018 11:58:44 GMT -5
Keeping in mind though that there is quite a difference between heated debates on a topic and antagonistic personal insults.... Just thought I'd throw that in... As for whether he stays or goes... as you say.. people are free to do as they choose.. he can expect to be throwing his insults at the air though as I am done responding to them while I try to seriously discuss a topic. That's my friend is my two cents on the subject... and my final comment. So stay or go @tobytyler ... it's your choice, as I really don't care. From the above post it appears that you are the one that can't let it go. I mean seriously, how many times does this make it that you have told me you are done talking to me? I've lost count. Will this be the last time? I sure hope so.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 15, 2018 12:21:38 GMT -5
There is no reason for you to leave. This is a forum. Issues get debated. Sometimes they get heated. Everyone here has freedom....freedom to post what they want, debate as they want, and share the opinions that they want (within the TOS). If someone cannot handle heated debates or if they get to a point that they are so angry that they don't want to deal with it anymore, they have the freedom and the ability to ignore the situation and step away from that post, the forum, or their computer altogether. It's quite simple.  |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 15, 2018 16:41:12 GMT -5
Everyone here has freedom....freedom to post what they want, debate as they want, |
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Post by Drifter on Jul 15, 2018 18:03:58 GMT -5
closed for no reason other than for a forum administrator to have a power/ego trip. 
No...I, like others are getting tired of the tit for tat assassinations, continually, between two mature adults.
Going after the contents of a debate and not the poster, should be the objective. Please keep that in mind. And, if it doesn't work, report the post, if it's directed towards you.
BTW...your two poll threads were just merged together. |
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Post by formerlyme on Jul 22, 2018 17:34:52 GMT -5
I enjoy @tobytyler being here, and I hope he decides to stay. I feel the same about QuickSilver. Nobody here, admins or members, should be expected to choose between one member and another. So far as I am personally concerned, they are both welcome and appreciated. The animosity between them isn't all that pleasant, though...just my humble opinion!
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Post by TheSource on Jul 22, 2018 17:38:03 GMT -5
...Nobody here, admins or members, should be expected to choose between one member and another. So far as I am personally concerned, they are both welcome and appreciated. ... 
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Post by QuickSilver on Jul 22, 2018 17:39:39 GMT -5
I enjoy @tobytyler being here, and I hope he decides to stay. I feel the same about QuickSilver . Nobody here, admins or members, should be expected to choose between one member and another. So far as I am personally concerned, they are both welcome and appreciated. The animosity between them isn't all that pleasant, though...just my humble opinion!
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Post by TheSource on Jul 22, 2018 18:06:51 GMT -5
With all due respect....how would you propose we "control" him on an open and free forum such as ours? We have our TOS as a guideline and it has served us well to this point in time and hopefully will well into the future. We are a self-governing community here and rely on our wonderful members to act and post like the adults that they are.
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Post by QuickSilver on Jul 22, 2018 18:11:40 GMT -5
With all due respect....how would you propose we "control" him on an open and free forum such as ours? We have our TOS as a guideline and it has served us well to this point in time and hopefully will well into the future. We are a self-governing community here and rely on our wonderful members to act and post like the adults that they are. |
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Post by chinadoll1981 on Jul 22, 2018 19:46:42 GMT -5
absolutely.... no one say you can't decide.... only I present for food for thought.....sometime we let others ruin "our days" and that not necessary.... In Buddhist belief.....Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die..... don't allow others to allow yourself to be upset.... do not allow anger to rule thinking.... take deep breath and then move forward.... never allow someone to make you do something you not wish.... as I say.... I would miss you... |
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Post by QuickSilver on Jul 22, 2018 19:55:01 GMT -5
This is very true.. WE can decide to let others "ruin our days" or not.. Posting here with TT behaving like the A$$hat he has.. is not a way I choose to let ruin my day. If he comes back and does not straighten out.. I will no longer be here.. therefore.. not drinking his poison.. You all can do that if you wish. do not allow anger to rule thinking.... take deep breath and then move forward.... never allow someone to make you do something you not wish.... as I say.... I would miss you... That's nice... I would NOT miss being attacked by another poster |
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Post by Fireheart on Jul 22, 2018 21:23:29 GMT -5
do not allow anger to rule thinking.... take deep breath and then move forward.... never allow someone to make you do something you not wish.... as I say.... I would miss you... That's nice... I would NOT miss being attacked by another poster That's definitely your choice. You do whatever you feel is best for you. Anyone can choose to come or go as they wish. |
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